Tam broke the news to me that she was expecting our second child in a rather novel way. She bought a shirt for Ky and wrote on it, ' 'I'm gonna be a big brother' That was back in May when we were still living in Werribee. I didn't click for a moment, thinking the shirt was a nod, a strange one admittedly, to the ridiculous reality TV show that was polluting the air waves at that time. When it did hit me I was overjoyed. We both were. Dancing around the kitchen with Kyan we were both so stoked at the news. Our thoughts turned to the prospect of a little girl to round out our little family but another boy would also be a blessing. Admittedly it was a little unexpected but it was also wonderful, wonderful news.